Saturday, April 10, 2010

Guys suck

I hope that noone thinks that I'm too bitter of a person when they read my entries but my blog is my outlet to complain about the injustices in the world and the things that flat out tick me off. Todays topic is the most common theme in what i write about stupid boys. I am sick of the hypocrisy, arrogance, and selfishness of the male gender. Story number one has already been discussed on here, refer to "heartless jerk". Turns out he's not the only guy that feels like treating me as less than a lady.
Guy number 2. He's just a friend, but he decided that I'm only worth something if someone more exciting isn't around. I hadn't seen him in a long time and was really excited to hangout with him, however if there was a girl that was shorter and cuter than me in the room i was instantly ignored. She'd leave the room i was almost visible again, she entered the room i was pond scum once again. I really hate it when guys play this rather slimy game, not everyone plays it but many guys do.
example #1 There are multiple girls in the room, the flirty 5'2 girl with big boobs is the only person these boys see.
#2 I am the only girl in the room, I am female therefore i will get flirted with and treated like a female.
Many guys claim to treat ALL girls like ladies and in most cases this is a falsehood. The tall girl will almost always be treated like a guy.
example #1 The short girl trips and gets a scratch; the world is ending, she needs cpr, the guys will go pick her up and stick her on their laps to console her from the trama of the scratch.
#2 The tall girl's arm gets cut off; the guys will talk to her like a guy. You got cut? Toughen up. You got cut? Cool. Did it bleed bad?

So we've looked at guys that use you, as in "Heartless Jerk", and guys that are your "friends" that treat you like a guy. What about that supposed "nice guy"? The guy that likes you but you've made it clear you want to be just friends, what about him? Isn't he an exception to the rule? No.
Theres this guy that I've been friends with all year and he's told me several times that he likes me. I have kept this strictly as friends and after what he did the other day I'm glad i have. I invited him to dinner at my place, very platonic, just dinner. He comes over and goes straight into my roommates room to go flirt with her. He goes in, hugs her, picks her up, and just starts flirting hardcore with my very much TAKEN roommate. Not sure what this was about. She was just being her friendly self and i had no issue with her. At dinner he chooses the chair near her room and leans it back so he can continue to flirt with her. Our food is getting cold and I'm waiting for him to face me so we can pray. He doesn't. He continues to keep his head in her doorway and uses cheesy lines that he had previously used on me, these lines i had once viewed as genuine sentiments not the recycled sludge they were. The only reason he finally did turn around is because the roommate finally told him to. He's a big boy and can flirt with who he wants but that shouldnt magically turn his friend who is doing him a favor invisible.
To heck with guys I'm gonna become a mormon nun.

1 comment:

  1. YAY for Mormon Nuns! Me too! Can I join ya? Where are ya at these days? Send me your email & I'll add you to my blog :D

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